Mommy time

I have been trying to save money for a family trip to Europe so I have not been taking any weekly outing trips by myself in order to curb my desire to spend money. However, I am realizing that I do need that time out by myself. Watching my favorite show while the kids are sleeping is nice but it is not the same as going somewhere on my own! And there are ways to indulge a little without breaking the bank (I am drooling over a pair of cowboy boots that I do not need so I will control myself): for example I could head to Starbucks and read a book while enjoying a hot chocolate, I could take a quick run in the neighborhood, or go enjoy a dessert or appetizer somewhere. Go with a budget in your mind so you do not feel guilty and end up not enjoying your special time to yourself. I have noticed that I am a more patient mom and wife if I have regular child free time. So take the time to schedule yourself some "me time" which I will make sure to plan in my week from now on.